Honolulu Divorce Lawyer
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Unfortunately, not all marriages last a lifetime, and many do not end amicably. For some married couples, divorce is a necessary step towards a healthier, more harmonious life. However, the divorce process can be stressful for both parties, especially if there are children involved. At Sturdivant & Associates, LLLC, our Honolulu divorce lawyer has been guiding families through this process since 2005, and he is adept at handling the toughest divorce cases with competence and precision. If you have decided to file for divorce, or need to respond to divorce papers in Hawaii, you should seek the counsel of an experienced Honolulu divorce lawyer as soon as possible.
Understanding Divorce in Hawaii
Have you been served with divorce papers? You should educate yourself on what this process means:
- In simple terms, divorce is the legal dissolution of a marriage.
- Unfortunately, this dissolution can have lifelong effects, which is why you should be cautious and thorough in regard to the terms of your divorce agreement.
- Once the marriage is dissolved, your financial standing and parental rights can change dramatically, so seeking the counsel of an experienced family law firm should be a top priority.
Our Honolulu divorce lawyer takes pride in his performance and is driven by his passion for helping families. If you are ready to file, he is ready to assist.
At Sturdivant & Associates, LLLC, we help clients get through some of the toughest terms that can hold up a divorce, including:
- Division of assets
- Alimony payments
- Child support
- Child custody
- Medical coverage
- Educational expenses
If you’re ready to file for divorce, we can guide you and your family through the process. We’ve handled various divorce cases including contested and uncontested divorce for over 12 years, and our Honolulu divorce lawyers have the skills necessary to assist you today.
Kids & Divorce Questions
Difficult Questions Kids Ask About Divorce, by authors Scheider and Zuckerberg, is a handy book that provides insight into typical responses by children experiencing their parent’s divorce. This book effectively analyses divorce from the perspective of the child.
The following insights are helpful:
- Children can only understand what their age allows.
- Children have trouble articulating their feelings.
- Children are too frightened to ask the most painful questions.
- Parents may be reluctant to listen.
- When children do ask questions, their feelings may be denied.
- Children fear their questions will hurt or anger their parents.
- Some fathers are not practiced in addressing certain problems.
- Children find solace in magical thinking.
Furthermore, what a child says may not be congruent with what they are actually feeling (fear):
- “I’m afraid of being alone” becomes, in a divorce, “I’m being left alone.”
- “I hope the bad guys go away” becomes, in a divorce, “The bad guys are going to get me.”
- “If I do something bad, will you still love me?” becomes, in a divorce, “Did I send mommy/daddy away?”
- “I wish I were smarter, prettier, faster” becomes, in a divorce, “I’m not good enough to make you stay.”
A custody litigant may be inclined to hear only what they want to hear, and children may be reluctant to express their fears and questions, but an observant parent by being aware of their child’s underlying fears, and their developmental limitations, may be able to put their child at ease.
Gain access to our Honolulu divorce attorney today by calling our firm at (808) 201-3898. We’ll get you the help you need!